How to Start a Homestead on a Single Income While Struggling for a Large Family

When we started, I made $52,000 a year and my wife stayed at home. And to this day, we don't go on vacations that we pay for,. Every now and then we'll piggyback with a parent or something. We are on some terrible Christian sharing health plan. But ours is just like, we've got to go. "We can be in the world, but not of the world"