How Do You Cause People to Feel Feeled?

i was a therapist for 40 years, and i developed something called surgical empathy. Empatholysis is going in there an licing the attachment to death as a way out of the pain. Oxytosin is not just caring, but carrying in a way in which the other person feels cared about. It's helping the loneliness epidemic in the world to feel just slightly less lone.