Young Christian Men, How Many Chats Do We Get?

Young christian men, how many chats do we get? There hasn't been a show more pro institution of marriage than this programme. Unfortunately, i understand why it is, because we wanted to create a nuclear family as a building block for society here. But i don't understand, you know, people act as though it's this travesty. If states can determine all kinds of marrital laws, why can't they determine what qualifies for a marriage? I'm almost on the point of advocating you get married in the church, is a covenant, and just ignore the state at that point. Cause you guys should be together, because you make a covenant before god, which should