"If you're really secure is a gay person, you're not constantly waging war on the world of everybody who might not be totally ok with you. You let it go," he says. "You can invent other ways in which you think you're changing the world, but at this point you're not just coercing other people." 'It's mine boggling that all we spend our time doing is complaining about how terrible everything is,' Andre adds.

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