Are You Putting Your Energy Into Being a Magnet and a Jail?

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If the dating apps aren't working for you and that is just like not a fruitful way to live an exciting dating life as you want it Learn how to be awesome in person. There's a science behind the smell them thing That's definitely important towards attraction And I think what we're trying to combat here is putting yourself in a jail For no reason and then blaming things outside of yourself for not getting to where you want to go. so I guess the pursuit becomes finding your edge.

It's human nature to worry about the things that can go wrong.

But often overlooked is the mentality of attraction instead of detraction, or in other words focusing on what you can bring to the table instead of what you can prevent from happening.

While so many companies signal they want entrepreneurial candidates yet don't allow side projects, want out of the box thinkers yet expect them to work in a box (office), and vow they only hire top talent yet pay below market rate... there's power in thinking through whether you're truly focusing on attracting the right people or just trying to prevent wrong behavior.

In this episode, Steph and Cal discuss the mentality of being a magnet instead of a jail, originally inspired by this tweet of Steph's.