Sheas decided to make it a big deal. She's organizing around him. She is engineering the entire environment around him, briot to indicate that he is fat and that he needs to lose weight. The final stage of these sort of six stages is fury and determination. Ok, zen was bolshit. If he couldn't do it, i could do it for him. I love that she reached a point of maturity of just like, it's his body,. And then she just breathed right past it. Then she was just hitting burn it down. Why would i respect his boundaries when i could not do the unbelievable?