
BHE 37 - Object Relations Daggers to the Heart [Part 2] - Courtney Smith
Big Hormone Enneagram
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I Want That Doll, but He Wasn't Paying Attention Now
The impulse to do something independently of one's own will gets perverted or mixed With this need to elicit that kind of support and so Anytime there is the sixes You know Volition comes up That suddenly gets mixed in with this early life need to elicit the support And gets subverted Right Because now it's not about like all right. I wanted that doll, but he wasn't paying any attention Wow, what if I instead go for the cookie Will you pay attention now? And so And i'm willing to do that I'm willing to give up what I wanted What I thought I wanted So that I can have a felt sense of being supported and guided Right Right This makes a lot
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