If someone is struggling out there, it's not necessarily entirely their fault. All of us are products of our environment. Their lives are also determined by the judgments we make. If you're listening to this post, and its making you feel resentful, because i don't understand why this person is complaining, i have it so much harder, i'm not saying you don't have it harder. What i'm saying is that comparing who has it harder doesn't actually help.