How to Maintain Autonomy in Personal Life

There's something wrong with having fans, but how do you maintain some sense of autonomy in personal life where there's these expectations? I was doing Instagram live almost every day because I was in grief and I was losing my mind. You gotta assume that they kind of know like, well, we're not going to have lunch. But then if you are, yeah, if you share vulnerabilities about yourself, and you're hoping to connect cause somebody laughing at that Sure is them connecting with you.