Are You Blind in Many, Many Ways?

When you're arguing with your wife, it's more useful to think how is it that i'm wrong in this situation? And so one of the things we learned to do was to separate and to go our own ways. You have no idea how fast your mind will generate an answer to a question like that. Say, look, you know, here's how i'm an idiot in this situation. And then you're two idiots, and then maybe you can have a conversation. So thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam of th out of thine own eye, and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote of thy brother's eye? Ask and it shall be