Don't Compare Your Self-Image to Other People's Projected Exterior Self

It's very easy to have an unstable self-image. You won't really get accuracy about what kind of guy you are until you've had at least a few medium-term relationships with women and you've had stable long-term friendships with men. One of the best ways to increase short term happiness is expectation for something that you enjoy and want to do. Find a girl to date for three months or six months, right? And preferably one who is a little bit happier than you on a 10 to 10 scale.