Fear and procrastination: get specific about your fears

Do you believe the brain can be trained to manifest?

Do you think it’s more about mindset or action?

Today, Jay sits down with neuroscientist and creator Emily McDonald to explore how rewiring your brain can transform every area of your life. Emily shares how understanding the science behind your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors can help you break free from cycles of fear, self-doubt, and procrastination. She explains that the brain’s natural instinct is to keep you safe, not help you grow, which is why so many people feel stuck even when they’re trying to move forward. Through relatable examples and neuroscience-backed tools, Emily reveals how awareness, intention, and identity shifts can create real and lasting change.

Jay and Emily dive into the psychology of motivation, discussing why we often delay the things we care about most and how “cheap dopamine” from social media and instant gratification keeps us from deeper fulfillment. Emily explains how to retrain your brain to crave long-term rewards, not quick hits of pleasure, and how to use self-compassion and small wins to build momentum. Together, she and Jay unpack the science of manifestation, why it’s not about wishing for things to happen but about wiring your brain to become a match for the life you want.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Rewire Your Brain for Change

How to Break Free from Feeling Stuck

How to Overcome Fear of Success

How to Stop Relying on Cheap Dopamine

How to Build Motivation Through Self-Reward

How to Attract Healthy Love by Becoming a Match for It

True transformation doesn’t happen overnight, it begins the moment you decide to understand yourself more deeply. When you learn how your mind works, you realize that every setback, fear, and doubt isn’t a failure, it’s simply your brain trying to protect you.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:00 Relationships Begin with Intention

02:39 When Your Identity Keeps You Stuck

05:42 The Power of the Labels You Use

08:17 Are You Afraid of Being Seen?

10:08 Label the Fears Holding You Back

12:12 Play Out Every Fear to the End

13:48 Stop Chasing Cheap Dopamine!

17:31 3 Ways to Naturally Boost Dopamine

22:29 The Power of Having Something to Look Forward To

25:22 The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything

27:00 Why Desperation Blocks Success

31:29 Discovering Your Deepest Core Value

32:56 The Power of Understanding Your Own Brain

39:41 Surround Yourself with Expansive Minds

43:07 The 3-Step Science Backed Manifestation Tool

47:39 Do You Believe in Divine Timing?

49:09 Turning Jealousy into Inspiration

51:51 Worthiness Begins with Self-Love

56:13 How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs

01:02:14 What Are You Building Within Yourself?

01:04:19 Let Go of the Need for Approval

01:09:53 Love Finds You When You Least Expect It

01:15:51 Emily on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Emily McDonald | Website

Emily McDonald | YouTube

Emily McDonald | Instagram

Emily McDonald | TikTok

Emily McDonald | LinkedIn

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