Can We Talk About Sex?

The author asks readers to think about their own erotic experiences. She says many couples avoid sex because they don't know what it's like, but the truth is that few men are very wonderful in this way. When a woman tells her partner she wants an amazing sex life with him, he shuts down and doesn't want to talk about having sex at all. The relationship becomes more intimate as desire drops for both of them. This can lead to feelings of separation between two people who love each other so much you're afraid to let go.