The More Responsibility That We Are Taking on That Doesn't Actually Come to Us

"The more responsibility that we are taking on that doesn't actually belong to us is the less available that we can be," she says. "That lie that those beliefs like, oh, it's because I'm not good enough or it's because of this, this, that or other reason why my parents or whoever couldn't be ... they are a security blanket for us." She adds: "We think that the truth is worse than the lie"