How to Get Rid of the Fantasies

"The only way I can really actually connect and be seen, at least to myself, is by making who I feel like inside manifest," she says. "When they start to create interconnection, when they start to open themselves up to different types of attachments, the fantasies really loosen up." 'I have worked with especially men who are so distressed and consumed by their fantasies... but these are often people who are also struggling for interconnection,' he adds.