Is Status as a Sexual Partner a Bad Idea?

A lot of times it's about specialness. We're looking for specialness through exclusivity and through that feeling of specialness we're going to feel safe. Instead of trying to encase that special thing that you do together inside a bubble or put a wall around it to protect it, imagine instead that you two are unique and incomparable artists. Leaning into that can help you let go of any fears you may have about what you might lose if you no longer have that exclusivity.