Secrets and Mind Wandering

Examining the tention behind a secret can be a good way to understand what and whether it will cost you to keep it hidden. It's easy, for example, to shrug off a secret designed to avoid a political tiff with a co worker. But other secrets are not so easy to brush away. They reveal your insecurities, your vulnerabilities. These secrets tend to produce one of the most damaging consequences to secret keeping. People don't plan to think about their secret, but their secret comes to mind anyway....