Every time a Kiwi Co kit comes in the mail, my kids just absolutely lose it. There's almost no limit to the things about ourselves that we are capable of feeling shame over. Shame is guilt's evil twin. It gets in the way of enjoying so many of life's wonderful features from sex to food and losing yourself in the rhythm of music. Do not let the shame you are working to overcome hitch a ride with your kids. Let them be comfortable being their own people. Embrace what they might never try or embrace the things about themselves that make them special.