I don't think there's anything wrong with looking someone in the eye and saying I would like to kiss you right now yeah. It can be sometimes like thrown people off in a way that I actually kind of enjoy because their expectation is like I'm going to make the move. We're just going to kind of like slowly collide and actually being transparent and like bursting the bubble There's something that I find really empowering with thatYeah have you seen honey I shrunk ourselves it's like the sequel to honey I shrunk the kids now I need to watch that oh I mean it's not as good but there are some non-weird ways to ask for consent before kissing this isn't normalized yet.
In this episode, Hannah is joined by Ruby Rare, who is a queer non-monogamous sex educator. Ruby discusses her new book ‘Sex Ed: a Guide for Adults’, and what it was like writing a book in lockdown. She and Hannah talk about Ruby’s love for being nude, her body positive life drawing class, and how queerness can allow people to write their own rules about sex and relationship structures. Finally, Hannah and Ruby answer questions from Instagram about consent, delayed ejaculation, and queer sex, and Ruby talks more about her jelly fetish!
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Ruby Rare is a queer, non-monogamous, pink-haired sex educator on a mission to get people talking more confidently and inclusively about sex. She’s an ambassador for Brook, the UK's leading sexual health charity for young people, co-founder of Body Love Sketch Club, a body positive life drawing class, and when the world is less pandemic-y she runs workshops for adults on porn, pleasure, and non-monogamy. Her debut book Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults is out now.
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