What Does 'Lock In' Mean?

In this special episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with a very special guest—my 11-year-old son, Lawson Hagner. This episode is unlike any other, because it's not about interviews or experts—it's about connection. It's about the power of slowing down, asking questions, and being intentional with our kids.

Lawson and I dive into simple but meaningful topics—his favorite memories, what it means to "lock in," and how he's learning to handle school, sports, and life. What starts as a lighthearted father-son chat turns into an authentic, heartfelt conversation about discipline, focus, and what it truly means to build a strong relationship between a dad and his son.

We also talk about a new free resource I created called "Questions for the Car"—designed to help dads spark deeper conversations with their kids during everyday moments. This episode is a reminder that great connections don't happen by accident—they happen when we choose to show up and be curious.

What You'll Learn in This Episode

[0:00] – Introduction

[1:02] – Introducing Lawson Hagner — my 11-year-old son and first-time podcast guest.

[2:25] – The fun and chaos of sixth grade (and yes, girls come up right away).

[4:58] – How Lawson's football team went undefeated—and what "locking in" means to him.

[6:06] – Our father-son bond and why intentional connection matters so much.

[7:08] – Introducing the Questions for the Car resource and how dads can use it.

[8:33] – Lawson's favorite memories and why going to breakfast together means so much.

[10:19] – How meaningful conversations can come from simple, everyday questions.

[12:11] – "Locking in": Lawson's personal philosophy on focus and discipline in sports and school.

[15:20] – How to manage overwhelm—teaching kids (and adults) how to take on the "next right thing."

[20:02] – What tradition means to Lawson and why Christmas represents deeper family connection.

[23:14] – The power of presence—how just three questions can spark a 25-minute, life-giving conversation.

Key Takeaways

1. Connection happens in small moments. Breakfasts, car rides, and one-on-one chats matter more than grand gestures.
2. "Lock in" isn't just for sports. Lawson reminds us that focus and effort apply to school, family, and life.
3. Asking great questions creates great relationships. Curiosity opens the door for deeper understanding.
4. Tradition builds belonging. Family rituals—like Christmas mornings and hot cocoa nights—create lasting bonds.
5. Dads set the tone. Our consistency, presence, and willingness to engage build the foundation our kids stand on.

Links & Resources

• Download Questions for the Car: https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions

• Episoe Shownotes: thedadedge.com/1398

Closing Thoughts

This episode isn't just a podcast—it's a moment between a dad and his son that shows what intentional fatherhood looks like in real time. Whether it's on the way to school, over breakfast, or sitting by the fire, every dad has the opportunity to lead with curiosity and love.

If this conversation inspired you, please rate, review, and share The Dad Edge Podcast. And remember, gentlemen—don't just go through the motions… Live Legendary.