Conversation and Sex, There's More Exploration

In conversation and in sex, there is less of a thing we can do where we know in advance that we'll be agreed on it. And so there's more of like a exploration of the space of possible things we could be saying and doing. A narrow ritual might be one where the range of ritual responses is very constrained. An other might be wide, in which case there's a wide range of possibilities that we might need to coordinate within. We might just fail initially to be an sink, and we may need to search and to find a way that we could get to be and sink.