I'm a Straight Woman, and I Want It to Be Like Gay, Right?

Gara: When i have gone for straight women, i really feel like i want to put on this sort of, like, performative masculinity. But when i have dated more like masculine people, i butch up real she says. Gara: Even though i have a masculine energy, i cannot stand what i think is actually happening at the woods. And it's just like this uber masculinity is so strange,. yet as we go to dyke bar s, basically to escape that and then find it so prevalent at the woods is crazy.