"This is yoow, ok? You didn't sign up for a pandemic, necessarily, but you signed up to be superintendent," she says. "It's just the opposite instinct that we have when we're making a decision ... We want a kind of stay behind." She asks: How do you humanize yourself and what's the cost to you in terms of h relationships if people don't see you as anything other than the person to rebel against?
Have you ever had to make an impossible decision? One that doesn’t have an obvious “right” answer. One that someone will inevitably hate. John knows this feeling all too well. He’s the superintendent for a mid-size school district in California. To say the last school year was difficult is a major understatement… John tried to ensure the safety of his students, teachers, and faculty while balancing the reality of students struggling in their virtual classes. Throughout the school year, John’s relationship with his teachers and the teachers union deteriorated. Now, classes are back in session and he’s hoping to find common ground as soon as possible. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Gary Friedman, a world-renowned conflict mediator. He has some tips on how all of us can mend a fraught relationship before it’s too late.
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This episode originally ran on August 31, 2021.
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