"I was really confused about there's some like, there's the lk nugget of something which feels incompetent to me, within you," he says. "It manifests in your words, over and over and over again." You'll say something that's logical, and then you'll be like, butt. And i'm getting sense like, even when we talked about the conflict, i'm being dumb. Where does that come from? Where did your mind learn that you're dumb?" 'i believe that despite all your success, despite how good you are at grinding, despite all his faith that you do have in yourself, you could ha dropped out of school,' she adds.