The Polyamorous Journey

"I went through a period of a couple years, my own years of discovery where I felt like I was the one who also left a bunch of broken hearts," Libby says. "It did set me up for just like a lot more heartbreak than if I had just been rejected by people at the gate." If you're with someone where even right at the gate, you're having to kind of try to sell them on it on something you're not 100% sold on, she adds. 'When you shine your light as the unique person is that is you and are really, really clear about what people are getting,' Lizzie's advice in general: Don't be afraid