Is That What You're Saying?

When you tell somebody something like what you're talking about, you actually want them to have the experience of it. And so you can see that they don't get it and so you just kind of give up on it. It's a way of self-erasing too. So there's always like a level of shame that happens afterwards. Like, oh, I couldn't communicate my experience again. This experience is too precious. If they can't meet me here in this place,. Then there's not revealing the emotional location becomes a pattern.