A lot of people write me because of my book mastery, and i make it plain. I call it your life's task. People write to me in their thirties and their forties, i can't find it. Where is it? That frustrationand that setness is actually the best thing,. And you can only reach it as an individual. So all the yelling and ranting and and pparenting itself won't do any good unless people want a substitute for your own broken heart. Then there's no choic chance at your ever going to hear that voice, right to drowned out.