In the face of hurtful experiences, draining experiences, can you ask yourself this question? Can I let it teach me instead of letting it shape me? Did they teach you that you'll never settle again? Good. That is you being self-made. You're not shaped and unlovable because of a past experience. The way to turn a wound into a scar is through you. It's through introspection. It'sThrough vulnerability. And when you start to tell stories about the scars instead of the wounds, that is evolution, that is reinvention.