Let's unpack the intricacies of dating as a Dominatrix! It’s been a ride filled with thrills, dangers, self-discovery, and power. I start with recollection about when my newfound dominance found an eager partner I wasn't quite ready for. That story leads into my debatable luck on dating sites before pre-dating apps existed, my discovering the swinger community, what it’s like developing crushes on clients, and ultimately, you’ll see how how my dating habits today are influenced by the hard lessons I learned on the way.
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HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - Separating the Work and Dating Headspaces
(02:00) - The Early Days of Dating as a Dominatrix
(04:45) - "Derrick", My First Attempt
(06:55) - My First Mistake
(10:00) - My Luck(?) on Dating Sites
(12:40) - How I 'Explained' What I Did for Work
(15:55) - Sex-Positive Dating Sites and Associated Adventures
(22:25) - Loneliness
(23:40) - Crushes on Clients
(26:10) - My First Long-term Partner as a Dominatrix, it was bad
(27:44) - What I Learned from the Bad Experience
(28:00) - How I Date Now
