The opposite of optimistic it's narcissism. It's institutionalized narcissism my secret that my parents taught me just happens to be the only secret every Hindu is going to hell Every Buddhist is going tohell certainly every atheist every agnostic every hurt person but you know the thing that I was going to say was I listened to Jolo scene right before my divorce and then I tried to listen to him after my divorce and before my divorce he made so much sense  I was like yeah I've been lost in a grocery store and then after my divorce I tried to listening to it and it might as well have been in Klingon I was like I don't hear this person anymoreYeah we'll