We have this growing trend in our society to gate keep suffering and unhappiness based on privilege, right? So what weve started to say, increasingly so, is that there's two camps of people. There's the privileged and the non privileged. And i don't think that this person is spoiled, but i think that they may have dimension to grow. That people with privilege still do struggle. We see that because this person seems like thy've got a stable job, so what are you complaining about? And so that aspect of judgment causes us to feel like we're spoiled, right?