The Maximizer is someone who researches everything they ever buy on wire cutter. The hesitator needs to adopt an identity as a data. I am somebody who's going on dates and just get out there because you're missing out on the chance to get better at dating. And so for her, the work was actually pursuing people,. understanding that it's not unromantic to go out and meet people.
Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist at the dating app Hinge, says making dating decisions based on initial chemistry alone is a losing battle. In this episode, dating coach Damon Hoffman speaks with Ury about her book, How to Not Die Alone.
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