Episode 12: The Good Fight: Tools for constructive fighting
Help Me Be Me
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The Importance of Unfair Play
All shoulds when it comes to reading your mind are off limits. There's no such thing as someone that should have known what you wanted. You didn't say it. Never bring that into an argument as a rationale for why you are right and they're wrong because it's totally unfair. And things like, it's obvious or I'm always like this, why would you not? Like that's all completely made up in your mind. It does not exist in reality.
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