Don't Tell Me What You Want Me to Do

"It's hugely important for the other person to feel you're not being," he says. "I've had a lot of conversations I'm on about this one, and it's that, you know, don't tell me what you want me to do." The idea of saying thanks seems like an odd thing to say but is actually pretty normal human behavior: He doesn't want to be told; he wants to be asked.

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