You Don't Want the Whole Cake

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When we are in fightor flight, we're most drawn to the person who is our protector and provider. In toxic relationships that person can also be your biggest harmor as well. So for me it was because so many things were right, i was like, i'm not going to find better. I think lott people, women do this too, especially if they've come from a lot of terrible ass relationship ections.

Does finding the kind of relationship you want mean conforming to an ideal of what a romantic partner is “supposed to be”? What if you don’t want to conform? Does this mean you’re not cut out for love? To explore further, Shan sits down with both Mandii, from the “See, The Thing Is” and “WHOREible Decisions” Podcasts and Khleo Thomas from Disney’s “Holes”; two successful and fascinating individuals who have come to believe that they are undateable. Not because of any toxic traits, but because their version of life-long happiness is not in line with what society feeds us. Listen in on this conversation as Shan helps these guests figure out what’s broken.

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