Are You a Girl or a Guy?

i feel like for females who friends on guyse it's easier to become more attractive as a guy if imo and connect with you on an emotional level. If i connect with you emotionally as a man, then i might start becoming more attractive to you as a female. Does it make sense? So i'm a guy, i'm the guy. You're the girl. I'm friends owned by you. But if i can find a way to make you feel validated and connect withyou emotionally, i feel h you might start looking at me differently. It's hard to switch back on. Geyser, i feel like they make up their minds quickly, and once it is off