The Failure of Reciprocity

Is there like a physical thing we could watch in the interaction that would be the failure of this thing or is this just a logical or some declaration that by definition it can't possibly be reciprocal if it isn't free. I don't think I mean like, again, a slave and a slave owner, they can have all these interaction but somehow you're, you're,you're defined. No, I think it's just a logical declaration, but I want to push back against the idea that the account of reciprocity is like consensual plus. The arousal is interacting in a certain way, because I'm trying to think about how I can.