Parenting Teens - What Happened?

As parents of teens, we focus on their behavior. But what we know as coaches, their behavior comes from what they're thinking and they're feeling. So when you ask them like, what happened, then are listening for what are they feeling? What's going on underneath the behavior? Right? And then you're validating those feelings so that they can like breathe, right? They're not anticipating you punishing them for their actions. Instead, they can like feel like that what happened, like it was perfectly normal. I haven't even done it yet. Believe me, I did it for 17 years. It's like when I finally learned this stuff, I was like, oh,