
#231: Overtalking on Dates, Debating my Ex, Gambling on my Love Life
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The Importance of Having Kids in Relationships
Can you picture yourself doing exactly what you're doing for the rest of your life if the answer is yes and I'm including no kids that or not it's a hard question buddy. Do you feel that you have to have kids to be happy right in that's in your in your life going forward? Nick: "It was clear all along like my wife and I have never wanted children" If one of us suddenly 180 nowYeah it'd be bad yeah it'd be real bad probably for our relationship."
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Wow, you mentioned so many amazing books in this episode and they are all going to be in the show notes. Well, Emily, that puts a bow on this puppy that wraps it right up. I just want to thank you so much for being the best sex ed teacher I've ever
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It has been a delight and a pleasure, I am absolutely sincere. You have just described my actual literal reason for being on Earth, which is teaching people to live with confidence and joy in their bodies, letting them know that they're normal and teaching them how to create
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pleasure with science. And I feel
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like we're doing it. You're doing it, and I'm just learning along the way. And now I'm off to finish my book. It's called Come Together, and I'm very proud of that. Oh
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Get it? See? Because it's not about simultaneous orgasm, it's about people turning toward each other.
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Prepare yourself for Come Together, coming out in 2023. Absolutely.
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Thank
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you all so much for listening.
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Fun time this week as the guys answer questions on overtalking vs overlistening when dating, debating a fictional version of your ex girlfriend, and deciding whether to stay in a stable friendly relationship or go explore the dating world in search of more.
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