How to Balance Emotional Connection and Technical Involvement

I used to be completely in control of the arrangement but at times I found that it would cause me to be looking only at my pads on stage right and kind of controlling all these different aspects. So I started shafting off some of those triggers to Timon who is the guitarist and plays a lot of sample instruments from South Ableton and keyboards as well so he would then take some of the for example a drop into the chorus or the bridge because I've a baby sort of caught up in a big vocal you know flourish. We're not tied to a grid we don't even think they even know how many computers have you got any of you all got separate computers?