How to Lead Yourself Really Well Before You Can Lead Others Really Well

You've got to learn to lead yourself really well before you can lead anybody else. To have a great relationship with any person, this is one of the things we talk about. If i wanted to go tmy wife, before she was ever my wife, if I wanted to go be in a relationship with her,  it is not until i spend time growing in relationship with her that i actually get to know her. And then just sitting around at a church and letting somebody tell me some things? Than just showing up once a week for an hour and getting out and learning from god isn't how it works. That's not how God works. Now, seven days a week,