Is There a Point Where We Need to Stop Pulling People Out of the River?

A lot of people struggling with compulsive sexual behaviour come from very rigid homes or very disengaged homes. A ponography can be one of those first places that you can begin to escape something of the tyranny of your system. But also, if you are in the midst of a disengaged home meeting, your mother father are not terribly attuned to your desires. They don't just see your needs, but they can't even see into your mind. Sometimes the involvement with porn can just be so powerful, because it's something of an antidote to all the rigidity and disengagement of the system.