The Importance of Being Self-Sufficient

I get confused about like do I Inflict intentional adversity onto a child so that they aren't tougher like I just worry You know, I mean, I'm sure they're gonna have it on their own But I'm just like do I neglect them and leave them at school on purpose? Do I get drunk sometimes? Well, I think that right there you're projecting Thinking that the kids are gonna be exactly like you. If the kid is maybe the kid if the kid is an entitled sl- Like I see the way a lot of people I know parent these days and it is so hard to watch but you won't do that you'd be a great mom look at me as successful tough