Is There a Good or a Bad Parent?

There's pain and therefore. That she's never been able to actually put story to because one if she starts to express it people around her say but your family loves you and they do anything for you. They invalidate that experience. Yes which perpetuates her shame. Exactly I shouldn't be bothered by this because everyone's telling me they're wonderful and they are  I think they really are great people but there's pain andTherefore. There's no this isn't about finding the hero or the villain this isn'tabout identifying a good or a bad this is about so much more than just identifying like I said the villain or the hero in the story the parents of that person are not