Introduction

i think it's really important for kids to have a range of adults in their lives that they can look up to and learn from. No matter how well intentioned we are, we can only show what we know. And nobody knows every thing, and nobody has taken every path and considered every option. I've thought a lot about this and written a lot aboutthis in both sexeton and civilized to death. Our kind of restricted view of of love is expressed in a sort of fearful monogamy. There will be no other source of intimacy and companionship or some one to take care of you when you're sick. All these things that have nothing to do with sex, that are about