I think it was incredibly courageous. You're the one who got her connected to the doctor. It's like getting sober. When you make it about you and someone else, it's never, ever, ever going to work. I'm for a pretty codependent couple. And so it's like, this was a hard thing for me to say because I had to let go of this part of my identity and get how I get my worthiness and how I feel and express love. For you to say, I can't do it. That it was a really. I just knew in that moment what you were thinking and I knew I had to be out loud.