What's the Difference Between Certain Kinds of Loss, Death and How We Talk About It?

Mathewson: I'm in the category of elderly. That's what i learned with covid that anyone 60 and over is elderly. So i'm well into that category. And so that kind of ambiguous loss has been really entering into this notion of aging is a form of lostace. You can't really get grounding to say, i'm 70. Well, ok, but what's the meaning of that? It doesn't have, you know. Shilly like lots of unaddressed losses that even being able to name,. as it's the sea - dangerous and alluring, and yet oddly at times, comforting and and reassuring.