The Penus and the Experience of Rape

i was thinking about a a paper i read years ago, written by an anthropologist in papa, new guinea. The author is exploring the idea that we have weaponized the penus and the experience of rape by applying huge amounts of shame to that experience. We misapply sham, right? So do we often apply the shame is felt by the person who is raped, not by the personWho does the raping, right? Absolutely. It is terrible tat that could be the case, right? And i think what you're pointing out, i don't know the specifics of what actually happened to the woman in popua, new right? But, but, but it's