Forgiveness Is Not a Final Line That You Cross

"Forgiveness is one of the most complicated, weird, unexplainable concepts," she says. "It's not something i'm ever really ly able to hold on to." After her first husband cheated with another woman, LZ Granderson found forgiveness by divorcing him and setting a boundary for no physical or emotional intimacy. She writes: "You don't try to control it ... you just show up in the face of things that don't make any sense"