What if the Goal Doesn't Come to Be?

I'm at a point in my life where a based on young adults in my household with my children, they have opened my eyes to a lot of things that at my age, i was very quiet upon. And so i always like to think about what the alternative scenario is, right? So if you, if you didn't get the sea sweet and tis does not sound pessimistic, again, just curious, if youdidn't get that sea sweet position, what would happen? I would probably definitely take another road.